To the Ones Becoming

 I have realized that a woman who lives as an individual and not based on gender is termed too ambitious, proud, and gregarious not just by the opposite gender but even fellow women who have had an "I can't even imagine" image of woman planted and rooted in them. But then I ask Why?. Why do you think she is just a woman?. Why does she have to be under a limit because of gender? Moreso, who is a woman? I'll love to know in the comment section. Once upon a time, a coursemate said to me and I quote "you're doing too much for a woman", as much as I was not at all pleased with that statement, I was also not too sad. It was a two-sided feeling hahaha. Why? I was partly pleased because I instantly realize that he may not know it but I was surely challenging the norms he understood and on the other, I was partly annoyed because he is among those who would never appreciate a woman doing more. In agreement with what I said earlier a demeaning image of a woman is ...